Wow

I just read through my past posts and I've left a LOT of stuff out. Whether on purpose or just not having the time, I'm not sure. But, here goes. I updated everyone on the start of swim team season and SS8's first tantrum at practice. He did indeed have a fit at the first swim meet as expected. I was at the other end of the pool so I didn't see it. I came at the end when Mr. M was freaking out that he hadn't swam and he didn't know what to do with him. Pretty simple, he can sit here an embarass himself all he wants, but he isn't leaving.

The day before, Mr. M had a funeral for his grandmother, so I had all the kids by myself. Psycho Mom was supposed to drive down the next day, during the swim meet, to spend time with the kids in VA. She arrives before the last event and gets to see SS8 swim. He finally realized he wasn't getting out of anything. We have it on video tape. I wasn't paying attention as I was taping, but Psycho Mom was standing behind me, and SAID NOTHING as SS8 was swimming. The coach and I, and Mr. M when he got down to our end of the pool, were screaming our fool heads off, but her, nothing. Silence. What a fucking cunt.

Fast foward, she takes the kids to the speedway Sat and leaves a message to Mr. M that they loved it and he should take them sometime, then her weekend is over, we meet in the parking lot of Target as there is no way she is coming to our home. She says nothing, we say nothing. Monday we receive a voicemail saying I should never leave her kids alone because they could stab each other to death. We ignore it.

On Tuesday she sends an e-mail demanding that we do everything she says by Wednesday or she will call DSS and file abuse charges, as well as file contempt charges in court. We ignore it of course.

Only then does she call DSS. This is now Thursday. On Friday she is supposed to pick up her children but decides not to because she can't afford it Clearly her money being more important than her children being abused. Cunt.

On Friday a social worker from DSS shows up at our door, asking for ME. She has a complaint saying I left all four kids, not just Mr. M's kids BUT MY KIDS, alone for over an hour LOCKED into our home, unable to get out, while I made deliveries. What the fuck am I? UPS?

Long story short, we have to have her interview all of the kids. As you can imagine they were all upset, extremely upset. The complaint also contained things like SS8 was losing too much weight. An 8 yr old, who weighs 142 lbs, was losing 10 lbs and it was too much. They were not allowed to each ice cream. FUCK! Stop the presses, clearly they are being abused, not allowed TO EAT ICE CREAM! Ah yes, needless to say, I wasn't very happy. I won't go into the rest, because I refuse to allow her into my life more than necessary. It's a Federal offense to file false abuse charges in our state, and she will pay..... She also called the Sheriff the next week, because she didn't get her wish with Social Services, to come out and check on the kids because, and I quote, we "aren't normal people." I wish it was this easy for a man to do this shit to his ex-wife.....